Tonight I started to realize how long it has been since I last made an entry. What has it been? Months? A century? Who can keep track, right? Any who, there is one, I guess you can call it a pressing matter, I am faced with currently. Why am I deciding now, after months of being away, to discuss something going on in my life? I firmly believe I am not the only one facing this “matter”.
The topic is relationships. More specifically a dating relationship. Here I am. 22 years old. Still unmarried. Still not in any sort of dating relationship. Still having never had a boyfriend. At 22 there is nothing but relationships forming, newly engaged couples, beautiful weddings, and babies coming into the world going on all around you. For any single person that can be rather disheartening. I know I have felt my fair share of emotions. You may have even asked yourself, will I ever FINALLY meet the guy/woman God has for me. I know I have. But here’s the thing. I could go on and on about the negatives people express about being single, but I want to focus on one main positive.
The positive? God. Stay with me here. How many times has the question, “When will I finally get to love and be loved” crossed your mind? If we’re being honest I am sure quite a few. I want to offer up a very quick, gentle reminder. You, in whatever stage you are currently in, are already so deeply loved. There is a God beaming when He sees you. If you’re like me you may not have husband, a fiance, or even a boyfriend yet, but you will never be without a loving God. One that has a hand on every moment of your life. One that sees your heart and its deepest desires. A God that I am personally so in love with.
So whatever stage you are in, remember to do these three things.
1. Praise God
2. Be praying
3. Just enjoy life
And since this connects to Facebook I’m sure my parents will read this so hi mom and dad!